Relationship problem

Posted by:: "iDRMRSR"
Date: Wed, 16 Mar 2005 23:00:56 -0500

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I may have to breakup.

Lately, I never go anyplace except where I want to go. For years now, I
always spend the holidays with MY relatives, not mine. And on family
vacations, all the driving is up to me. I never seem to be in the mood to
drive.

And when I want something, there always seems to be enough money, but then
when *I* need something, I never seem to be able to afford it. I have to
save out of the grocery money to buy things for myself, and then sneak them
in the house so I don't find out.

I've left myself to fend for myself while I'm going out with my SubG friends
to devivals and so forth. I swear, I treat myself as if *I* don't exist
sometimes!!!

I think the worst part is I'll find myself sitting there browsing internet
pr0n instead of coming to bed where I'm ready and willing, in person. I
seem to prefer a cold PC monitor to a nice warm me.

I feel as if I'm due half the credit for my career. After all, I scrimped
and saved to put me through college, and then I kept up the household to let
me work all those long hours and climb that corporate ladder. And now that
I've reached that pinnacle, it seems like I'm wanting to cast myself aside
and look for a younger me!

Yes, that's it, I suspect there's another me involved here. All the signs
are there. I just don't love me like I did when I first met.

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Posted by:: König Prüße, GfbAEV
Date: Thu, 17 Mar 2005 04:24:31 GMT

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"iDRMRSR" wrote:

>I may have to breakup.
>
>Lately, I never go anyplace except where I want to go. For years now, I
>always spend the holidays with MY relatives, not mine. And on family
>vacations, all the driving is up to me. I never seem to be in the mood to
>drive.
>
>And when I want something, there always seems to be enough money, but then
>when *I* need something, I never seem to be able to afford it. I have to
>save out of the grocery money to buy things for myself, and then sneak them
>in the house so I don't find out.
>
>I've left myself to fend for myself while I'm going out with my SubG friends
>to devivals and so forth. I swear, I treat myself as if *I* don't exist
>sometimes!!!
>
>I think the worst part is I'll find myself sitting there browsing internet
>pr0n instead of coming to bed where I'm ready and willing, in person. I
>seem to prefer a cold PC monitor to a nice warm me.
>
>I feel as if I'm due half the credit for my career. After all, I scrimped
>and saved to put me through college, and then I kept up the household to let
>me work all those long hours and climb that corporate ladder. And now that
>I've reached that pinnacle, it seems like I'm wanting to cast myself aside
>and look for a younger me!
>
>Yes, that's it, I suspect there's another me involved here. All the signs
>are there. I just don't love me like I did when I first met.


Maybe you should get re-married.
Have a romantic weekend at a country bed&breakfast.
Carry yourself over the threshold, and have your way
with yourself. Really sweep yourself off your feet.

Pick your self up by the jock-strap, and get on with it!




Posted by:: Artemia Salina
Date: Thu, 17 Mar 2005 02:47:35 -0500

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On Thu, 17 Mar 2005 04:24:31 +0000, König Prüße, GfbAEV wrote:

> Maybe you should get re-married.
> Have a romantic weekend at a country bed&breakfast.
> Carry yourself over the threshold, and have your way
> with yourself. Really sweep yourself off your feet.

In public I treat myself like a lady, but in the bedroom
I treat myself like a whore.

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Posted by:: "Rev. Richard Skull"
Date: 17 Mar 2005 12:47:36 -0800

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<< Maybe you should get re-married.
Have a romantic weekend at a country bed&breakfast.
Carry yourself over the threshold, and have your way
with yourself. Really sweep yourself off your feet.

Pick your self up by the jock-strap, and get on with it! >>


You forgot to tell him to fuck himself.



Posted by:: HellPope Huey
Date: Thu, 17 Mar 2005 05:04:45 GMT

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iDRMRSR wrote:
> I may have to breakup.
........
> Yes, that's it, I suspect there's another me involved here. All the signs
> are there. I just don't love me like I did when I first met.

I had a rough patch with m'self for a while and it was lookin' pretty
bleak. I was drivin' me crazy. Then I started drinking with my meds and
I started lookin' better to me again. Then I got down to a level where I
was bein' more like myself and I started likin' me better. I began to
make myself laugh more often and get my audio shit together more, so now
I get myself drunka nd nenertertain th HELL out o me BARF

--

HellPope Huey
Author of "The Tao of Insanity"

"...and the disciples ran about screaming
'Oh Lord, what a big f**kin' lizard!'"
- Bill Hicks

"Heaven's gonna SUCK!"
- "Malcolm In The Middle"


Posted by:: Baldin Pramer
Date: Thu, 17 Mar 2005 09:35:32 -0700

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iDRMRSR wrote:

> I may have to breakup.
>
> Lately, I never go anyplace except where I want to go. For years now, I
> always spend the holidays with MY relatives, not mine. And on family
> vacations, all the driving is up to me. I never seem to be in the mood to
> drive.
>
> And when I want something, there always seems to be enough money, but then
> when *I* need something, I never seem to be able to afford it. I have to
> save out of the grocery money to buy things for myself, and then sneak them
> in the house so I don't find out.
>
> I've left myself to fend for myself while I'm going out with my SubG friends
> to devivals and so forth. I swear, I treat myself as if *I* don't exist
> sometimes!!!
>
> I think the worst part is I'll find myself sitting there browsing internet
> pr0n instead of coming to bed where I'm ready and willing, in person. I
> seem to prefer a cold PC monitor to a nice warm me.
>
> I feel as if I'm due half the credit for my career. After all, I scrimped
> and saved to put me through college, and then I kept up the household to let
> me work all those long hours and climb that corporate ladder. And now that
> I've reached that pinnacle, it seems like I'm wanting to cast myself aside
> and look for a younger me!
>
> Yes, that's it, I suspect there's another me involved here. All the signs
> are there. I just don't love me like I did when I first met.

There, there.

--
Sir Baldin Pramer, R.P.A.


Posted by:: "krustymadfaker"
Date: 17 Mar 2005 10:47:37 -0800

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iDRMRSR wrote:
> I may have to breakup.

> Lately, I never go anyplace except where I want to go. For years
now, I
> always spend the holidays with MY relatives, not mine. And on family

> vacations, all the driving is up to me. I never seem to be in the
mood to
> drive.


> And when I want something, there always seems to be enough money, but
then
> when *I* need something, I never seem to be able to afford it. I
have to
> save out of the grocery money to buy things for myself, and then
sneak them
> in the house so I don't find out.


> I've left myself to fend for myself while I'm going out with my SubG
friends
> to devivals and so forth. I swear, I treat myself as if *I* don't
exist
> sometimes!!!


> I think the worst part is I'll find myself sitting there browsing
internet
> pr0n instead of coming to bed where I'm ready and willing, in person.
I
> seem to prefer a cold PC monitor to a nice warm me.


> I feel as if I'm due half the credit for my career. After all, I
scrimped
> and saved to put me through college, and then I kept up the household
to let
> me work all those long hours and climb that corporate ladder. And
now that
> I've reached that pinnacle, it seems like I'm wanting to cast myself
aside
> and look for a younger me!


Just don't let KIBO find out he might get jealous!

Rev. KrustyMADfaker

"Happiness is [DELETED FOR SECURITY REASONS]"
- The Computer

"All internal security agents please turn in your personal effects and
report to the food vats." -Paranoia R.P.G.



Posted by:: "just john"
Date: 17 Mar 2005 11:02:06 -0800

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Sounds like the transcript of when the narrator of "Fight Club" finally
went on "Oprah."



Posted by:: "frater S.O.D.D.I."
Date: 17 Mar 2005 15:39:18 -0800

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iDRMRSR wrote:
> I may have to breakup.
>
> Lately, I never go anyplace except where I want to go. For years
now, I
> always spend the holidays with MY relatives, not mine. And on family

> vacations, all the driving is up to me. I never seem to be in the
mood to
> drive.
>
> And when I want something, there always seems to be enough money, but
then
> when *I* need something, I never seem to be able to afford it. I
have to
> save out of the grocery money to buy things for myself, and then
sneak them
> in the house so I don't find out.

I think you ought to get out while the getting's good.

Face it... you're a loser, and you shouldn't have to put up with you
doing all these things that really hurt you, while you're doing
everything you can to make things work.

This is a time when an ultimatum is entirely appropriate. You must be
told, in no uncertain terms, that your behavior is destroying your
relationship and that if you do not immediately seek counseling, you
will walk out. You will try to equivocate and make empty promises, but
it's not like you haven't heard THAT before.